Q: Michael, a friend
is seriously concerned about what she perceives as a lack of ethics in the
teachings. If everything is choice and everyone is personally responsible for
his own decisions, is there any way of applying this to society as a whole?
And what is the difference between moral choices and ethical ones? I hope that
I have phrased my question appropriately. I, too, have wondered about the
teachings as applied to the larger world than just the individual.
MICHAEL: We appreciate
your investigations and we will attend to the premise. There is a kind of
pebble-thrown-into-the-pond analogy here. The individual makes a decision,
then that decision affects the immediate environment, which in turn reaches
beyond that little circle in its ripple effect. Nevertheless, at each point a
decision is made, usually by an individual. Let it be said that even
congresses, parliaments, diets, dumas, are composed of individuals. It may
appear that these bodies of government propagate decisions as a whole, but
this is not true. Each member decides, and incurs responsibility for that
decision, with its concomitant karma or lack of it.
There is also the decision that has no
obvious relation to the morality of the day. And be sure that there is always
a morality of the day. Morals, unlike ethics, respond to the flavor of
circumstances. What is ‘wrong’ yesterday may be seen as tolerable or even
‘right’ today. Envision the attitude toward divorce. Not so very long ago it
was considered ‘immoral’ in your society to dissolve a union except for one or
two overriding conditions. In this it is possible to see the fragility of
moral precepts. Morality becomes ethics when qualifications are applied.
As for the ethics of individual behavior,
this is a matter of how nearly toward his positive poles a fragment is
leaning. Actions that are clearly negatively based are easy to identify. It is
the other spectrum that has so much gray to contend with. Be aware of the
seductiveness of the chief feature: It is for his/her own good that I do this.
Or: I only take what is mine. Or: This may seem self-serving, but look at the
outcome. Another way of saying: The end justifies the means.
Subtly supporting each of these excuses is
the work of chief feature, attempting, and often succeeding, to offer up
choices as clean and full of goodness which are in fact swathed in ego and
self-indulgence. Chief feature is present to protect the personality, for no
other reason. Personality is cemented to the physical plane, to the bondage of
time and space. Whatever improves/anchors/binds/comforts false personality
becomes the strength of chief feature. The making of choices that curtail the
rule of chief feature threaten its strength/hold, diminishing false
personality while supporting true personality.
Does this mean that all responsible choices
must be difficult or unpleasant? That all ethical choices are burdensome? Not
at all. But often they do, to some extent at least, need attention, the
wariness of the awake fragment. Traditional creeds have paid tribute to the
power of chief feature without altogether understanding its composition. They
have called it ‘the devil’, or ‘sin’, or even ‘ego’. All of which confirms
that chief feature has a negative composition. But like all qualities which
embody the human existence, it also has a positive pole. Without this polarity
there would be no energy; without the energy that is generated by the tension
between the negative and positive poles, there is no progress in the work of
the evolution of the soul. Denying the strength of chief feature disrupts this
tension and little progress is made. Therefore acknowledging chief feature
supplies the energy necessary for moving away from it.
It is always a possibility that fragments
will fall into the habit of acknowledging the existence of chief feature by
resorting to a figurative ‘washing of the hands’ when it comes to accepting,
or more truthfully, rejecting, personal responsibility. This allows for the
apparent dichotomy between ethical and moral behavior. A fragment’s contention
that he/she is free of guilt in a particular situation has no meaning. Within
the form of the teachings, what one says has no weight. Responsibility is
created when an action is undertaken. Words have no place in this equation.
Actions not only speak louder than words, but they efface them completely.
Statements such as: I cannot help it, that is
my role/mode/attitude/chief feature, and you just have to understand that, are
a result of attempting to side-step responsibility. And it does not work.
Lifetimes may be spent in learning this lesson. Not one of you will reach the
end of your cycle of lives without this lesson becoming virtually the core of
your being.
Acknowledging one’s decisions as one’s own
returns the balance of truth to the fragment. Only then can the journey toward
agape continue. As long as there is rejection of this fundamental element
within a fragment there is paralysis/obstruction/stagnation regarding the
soul’s work.
It is common to hear fragments speak of
What–is-right-for-me in justifying decisions. There is an element of truth in
this statement. It is truly impossible for one to make a choice that is not
‘right’ for him. There must be, however, a perception of balance in the soul
for this statement to have a positive outcome. Although all is choice, all
choices being valid, outcomes are not all equally positive in a fragment’s
life when measured by the yardstick of the physical plane. When the dust
settles, a choice made in a particular situation may seem anything but
positive to the chooser. The positive achievement of a set of lessons learned
and the spiritual growth experienced may never be apparent to the fragment as
long as it is incarnate in that body. The really positive outcome may only be
understood in the between-lives settling up, and even then not wholly. More
than one lifetime may be necessary for the absorption of certain lessons.
Here, then, we come to the real difference
between moral decisions and ethical decisions. Moral decisions are inherently
‘right’ or ‘wrong’ according to laws/requirements/social usages of time and
space. Ethical decisions transcend time and space, becoming a matter of karma
if they are serious enough. It may be immoral to lie at one time, in one
social environment (space), and moral at another time, in a different social
environment. But unless the lie abrogates the choice of another, it has no
ethical meaning. Taking a human life becomes a matter of ethics, however, not
of morality. This deed may be necessary or inevitable according to human
calculations, but it has repercussions beyond time and space and this action
must be balanced at some point. It becomes a matter of karma.