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Channeling> The Poles of the
Emotions
The
Poles of the Emotions
A Way to Understand the
Nature of Energy In Motion (Emotions)
BY LORI TOSTADO, with
channeled material by Lori Tostado, JP Van Hulle, and Aaron Christeaan
August 28, 1997
Michael through Lori Tostado:
"Our main purpose in offering this
information is to show you that by changing your attitude [see Overleaves
chart for descriptions], you can get out of the emotional-center trap. By
using another attitude, often the complementary opposite of the one
experienced in a negative-pole of a certain emotion, the emotional energy can
then move by your sliding into its positive pole. The positive pole of each
emotion is what keeps it Energy In Motion (e-motion), whereas, the negative
pole of the emotion is experienced when you repress, deny or judge the
emotion. Then the energy gets stuck in the body, and can cause disease,
depression, and many anxieties and physical ailments. The key to healing
emotional distress is through fully experiencing the emotions and releasing
their energy. You really honor yourself when you allow yourself to experience
all your emotions, in what ever way is appropriate for you. This allows you to
release judgements on what you see as "bad" or undesirable emotions,
(of course they aren't "bad") and allows you to return to a state of
peace--a resting place between emotional states. All emotions pass, because
they are dynamic. Emotions were meant to move through you, to teach you your
physical plane and spiritual lessons."
Obviously you don't need to get this
intellectual in order to move emotional energy. In fact, sometimes it can be
detrimental to intellectualize emotional states too much! But for those of us
intellectually-centered people, this information here may be helpful sometimes
in getting out of the emotional part or trap--for emotional release or healing.
Here are two examples of how you can use the
attitudes to change a stuck, negative-pole aspect of an emotion into the
positive-pole, which then allows you to move through the emotion and release it:
Say you are in the negative pole of anger--you
are feeling like lashing out, attacking, and your mind becomes entrenched in
this state, because your mind is telling you that you can't just go out and
attack the person your anger is
focused at, so you are repressing the emotion
and it is stuck. The related attitude of anger is cynic, so by sliding to the
other axis of cynic, which is realist, you can get "realistic"
regarding what your anger is really about, find a safe place where you may
express this anger (perhaps by beating up some inanimate object, screaming,
crying, whatever gets you moving), then you will find your mind not so obsessed
about the object of your anger. Then you have the opportunity to look inside
yourself and get real--honest, see where your boundaries were transgressed, take
back your personal power, and set your boundaries again. This leads you back
into your integrity.
This also works for when you're in the negative
pole of what most people would judge to be a "positive" emotion. Take
love for example: The negative, stuck pole of love is neediness and
attachment--a state of feeling a lack of love. Its related attitude is idealist.
By sliding into the positive pole of the opposite axis of the idealist attitude,
which is skeptic, you may then begin to investigate within yourself what this
neediness indicates you feel a lack of love in part of your life, where you have
needs that are not getting met. After finding the source of your need, it's
easier to accept it within yourself, and not judge it. When you align yourself
then with the need, knowing it is within you, you can then choose to give
unconditional love to yourself, and then you can do what you need to do to get
the need met (which may not look like the way you were trying to get it met in
the first place, unconsciously) in a constructive, conscious way.
Below is a table of many emotions,
including the related attitude and the "freeing" attitude which can be
used to get out of the negative poles of those emotions.
Positive Pole
(Keeps Energy in
Motion) |
Emotional
State |
Negative Pole
(Keeps Energy
Stuck) |
Related / Freeing
Attitudes
(connect to
intellectual center) |
Agape
(unconditional love
and acceptance) |
Love |
Attachment,
Neediness |
Idealist / Skeptic |
Bliss
(balanced in moving and
higher-moving centers) |
Joy |
Giddiness
(out-of body, flighty,
ungrounded) |
Spiritulist / Stoic |
Lasting Spiritual Upliftment |
Happiness |
Contentment |
Pragmatist / any |
Tranquility |
Peace |
Resignation,
giving up |
Stoic / Spiritualist |
Appropriate establishment
of boundaries |
Anger |
Weapon of attack |
Cynic / Realist |
Grief
(letting go of something
that is complete) |
Sadness |
Regret
(being sorry something
has passed) |
Stoic / Spiritualist |
Dissolution
(releasing false hope) |
Hopelessness |
Despair |
Stoic / Spiritualist |
Trusting |
Hopefulness |
Denial,
Wishful thinking |
Spiritualist / Stoic |
Separation
(as in appropriate distancing) |
Hatred |
Vengeance |
Cynic / Realist |
Realizing all things are a part of
you and you are not left out |
Jealousy |
Feeling someone else is getting an
experience you need and you
are left out |
Skeptic / Idealist |
Desire for an experience
someone else has (creates
a goal to achieve) |
Envy |
Resentment |
Cynic / Realist |
Self-consciousness |
Shame |
Embarassment |
Stoic / Spiritualist |
Remorse |
Guilt |
Self-blame,
Lack of forgiveness |
Skeptic / Idealist |
Anticipation |
Excitement |
Frenzied |
Spiritualist / Stoic |
Impatience |
Frustration |
Repressed anger,
Depression |
Stoic / Spiritualist |
Alert to danger,
Caution |
Fear |
Phobia, Paranoia |
Pragmatist / any |
Honor |
Respect |
Fear of punishment, obedience |
Pragmatist / any |
Absolution |
Forgiveness |
Overlooking |
Idealist / Skeptic |
Detachment |
Numbness |
Withdrawal |
Pragmatist / any |
This is relatively new information from Michael
regarding emotional states. Most of the +/- poles were channeled through JP Van
Hulle and Aaron Christeaan, and some by me, Lori Tostado. Stephen Cocconi
brought to my attention that he has channeled about this material also. He uses
it a lot in the No-Fault Communication classes that he and Holly
Coleman teach. There is other information regarding related modes and chakras
which I have not completed, so I did not include that information here yet.
.....................................................................................................................................
Lori has been channeling
Michael since 1994. She specializes in energy work and issues including
relationships, adoption, healing, and extra-terrestrial contact. E-mail:
Lorazz@diamond-integration.com.
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