Pitfalls in Choosing a Mate

edited May 2013 in Relationships
Where do humans go astray in choosing mates? No one is willing to wait for the right person.

THERE IS A WEIRD SORT OF ESTRUS OPERATING IN HUMANS THAT MAKES THEM SEEK A SEXUAL PARTNER. THE SOCIETAL MORES DEMAND THAT THEY CEMENT THIS INTO A MORE BINDING CONTRACT. SOMETIMES THIS CAN BE COMBINED WITH FINANCIAL GAIN OR CLIMBING THE SOCIAL LADDER. THERE IS USUALLY LITTLE THOUGHT IN THE LASTING EMOTIONAL CONSEQUENCES, LET ALONE THE SPIRITUAL. QUITE OFTEN TWO PEOPLE WILL ARBITRARILY DECIDE THAT THEY HAVE A “GREAT DEAL IN COMMON”. THIS USUALLY IS NOT TRUE, SINCE NEITHER PRESENTS THE TRUE PICTURE TO THE OTHER. EACH TRIES TO OUTGUESS THE OTHER AND FIT IN THE MOLD IN ORDER TO QUALIFY FOR THE PRIZE, WHICH CAN BE SEX, MONEY, GLAMOUR, OR PRESTIGE -- ALL OF WHICH ARE FEATURES OF FALSE PERSONALITY. THAT TYPE OF SEXUAL ATTRACTION IS RARELY LASTING. IT IS BASED ON AN INITIAL ADRENALINE FLOW WHICH DOES NOT LAST. THIS PRODUCES A NICE WARM GLOW WHICH IS INTERPRETED AS ”LOVE”.

SOURCE: Michael Teachings Transcripts
Sign In or Register to comment.