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The Negative Poles
The
Negative Poles
BY PHILLIP WITTMEYER
I would now like to point out that in the
following sections I do not present just a bunch of dead facts or dry
descriptions of each Trait. There is more to this System than head knowledge —
information to analyze the hell out of the people you know. There is something
you can actually do with your newfound understanding of the dynamics of
personality, and that is: make yourself a better life. (This was a polite way of
saying: analyze the hell out of yourself.) You have probably seen the claim in
books and magazines that you can get happy by applying the information they
present. Well, I am making the same claim, but I will not hype the presentation.
My book may change your life and it may not. As the old maxim says, you will get
out of this what you put in. As I describe the Traits hereinafter, I will simply
point out what you can do with the information to improve your personality and
improve how your personality interacts with other personalities. It is up to you
to apply it or not.
The primary benefit that I hope you get from this System is the understanding
that no Trait is bad in itself, but there is the situation of the Negative
Polarizations of the Traits. As I mentioned briefly in Part One, each Trait has
a "Positive" and a "Negative" Pole. The Positive
Polarization is the happy and psychologically "healthy" manifestation,
and the Negative Pole is the unhappy and psychologically "unhealthy"
manifestation. Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to weaken the
unhealthy Negative Poles of your Traits and strengthen the healthy Positive
Poles.
The source of the Negative Poles is fear . This word should be understood in its
broadest meaning, not just in the sense of the Negative Pole of the Caution
Mode, -Phobia. By looking over the names of the forty-nine Negative Poles, you
can get a sense of the general meaning of the word "fear" used in this
way. In the System, fear is said to be the opposite of love. Here also, the word
"love" has to be understood in it's broadest sense: the meaning of the
forty-nine Positive Poles. In fear, we operate from what is often called the
"lower self". In love, we operate from what is often called the
"higher self". As I said, if you just take a few moments now to
compare the names of the Positive and Negative Poles of each Trait on the Chart,
it will give you an understanding of what the difference between fear and love
is in this System.
Although I do not like to be judgmental and name things "good" or
"evil" (I am a liberal engineer), others might like to put this
designation on the Positive and Negative Poles of the Traits. Almost every
television show or book or movie that dramatizes the struggle between love and
fear, good and evil, depicts fear and evil that can be related to one of the
Negative Poles of a Trait. This does not always mean gross acts like murder and
robbery, but it often means more subtle things like hatred (-Prejudice),
insincerity (-Ingratiation), anger (-Intolerance), escapism (-Withdrawal),
lethargy (-Inertia), rigidity (-Immutability), violence (-Belligerence),
cowardice (-Phobia), intimidation (-Oppression), ridicule (-Denigration),
superstition (-Faith), apathy (-Resignation), and so on. The overcoming or
defeat of these fears and evils is depicted in the media and in the arts as a
great achievement, and so it is. Are you up for the challenge in your real life?
I would like to share with you a few other of my thoughts concerning fear and
evil, and then we will move right on. Psychologists tell us that the only things
that can hurt us psychologically are "illusions ": that is, false
perceptions. Whenever a person is suffering psychologically (unless there is a
physiological cause), it is because he is being disillusioned about something
— he is learning about reality; he is learning the truth, which is a good
thing, although we may not enjoy it at the time. The suffering of
disillusionment yields the same results as the joy of enlightenment — both are
ways of learning. In this sense both are beneficial and neither is truly hurtful
in life, but obviously suffering is the less desirable way to learn. The
forty-nine Negative Poles are a systematic tabulation of the fundamental
falsehoods which cause suffering. Whenever a person is experiencing some mental
or emotional anguish, he would do well to check to see if he is expressing the
Negative Pole of one of his Traits. The Positive Poles are truth and light and
freedom and goodness. They cause no suffering.
The following descriptions of the Traits are of their "pure" forms,
which are necessarily exaggerated and stereotypical. No one actually fits the
description exactly because their Traits are colored by all their other Traits
and other personality factors. As you read the descriptions, you will probably
try to figure out where you fit in. Just pick the one that fits you best in each
Aspect, but do not expect a perfect depiction.
Another thing is that I only have one of the Traits in each Aspect, so I only
have an "inside" experience of that particular Trait. I can give a
pretty accurate description of the Traits I have. What I know about the other
six Traits in each Aspect has come through study of the abstract meaning of the
system and observation of people with those Traits. This makes my description of
them less accurate and/or complete. I am pleased that people who have these
other Traits shared their insights with me, because their insights have often
been more succinct and incisive than what I was able to come up with.
You can learn a lot from a study of each Trait by itself, but you can learn a
lot more by contrasting and comparing each Trait with the other three Traits in
the same Quadrate. For instance, as you read the descriptions, notice the
differences and similarities between the Quadrate members of Reduction,
Repression, Growth and Passion. I will point some of these things out, but you
might notice some other things, especially if you have one or two of the Traits
themselves.
You will notice that the following exposition is riddled with cliché's. This is
not because I have no original thoughts. It is because these phrases, though
trite, nevertheless succinctly express some basic and universal factors, or
archetypes — just as the Traits are themselves archetypal. One of the reasons
phrases become clichés is because they strike a chord in the psyche. The clichés
will help you to understand the fundamental nature of each Trait.
.....................................................................................................................................
Phil Wittmeyer is a longtime Michael student and scholar of the teachings.
He can be reached at: wittmeyer@hotmail.com
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